The First 3 Tasks I Do When I Want My Home to Feel Reset

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Anastasia Ellery, Mindful Living Curator

The First 3 Tasks I Do When I Want My Home to Feel Reset

The First 3 Tasks I Do When I Want My Home to Feel Reset

There's a certain magic that comes with the opportunity to refresh your living space. The rhythm of daily life can often leave our homes feeling cluttered or stagnant, and like a well-loved book, they sometimes need a thoughtful pause, a reset. From one friend to another, I've discovered that when my home feels off-kilter, there are three essential tasks I turn to that not only transform my space but also my mindset. These aren't just chores; they are rituals, acts of mindfulness that embed calmness and clarity into the bones of everyday life. Let's dive into these home reset tasks, not just in terms of tidying up but infusing your surroundings with renewed energy and intention.

1. Declutter with Intentionality

Anyone who's ever attempted a deep clean knows that clutter isn't just physical—it's emotional and mental. Tackling clutter can feel overwhelming, but it's the first step in setting the tone for a refreshed home environment. Here's how I approach it with intentionality and purpose.

Start with One Area

Pick one manageable area to begin with. Often, this might be a spot I encounter first thing in the morning, like a bedside table or the kitchen counter. Starting small is imperative—it prevents overwhelm and encourages the momentum that fuels larger tasks.

Ask the Right Questions

As I sift through items, it's about more than just deciding what stays and what goes. I consider questions like: Does this item serve a purpose or bring joy? Would I buy this again today? This reflective process often uncovers objects that no longer align with the current narrative of my life. According to Marie Kondo's famed method of tidying, known as the KonMari Method, each item should "spark joy" — a sentiment I’ve found invaluable in maintaining a clutter-free home source.

Find a Home for Everything

An essential part of decluttering is ensuring that each remaining item has a designated place. Not only does this prevent items from piling up again, but it also introduces a quiet order that makes the whole space feel more expansive and serene.

2. Refresh the Air and Light

Once the physical clutter is addressed, it’s time to focus on the feel of the space. The quality of air and light can significantly influence our mood and productivity, making this the next crucial step in the reset process.

Open the Windows

Regardless of the weather, opening windows is one of the simplest ways to breathe new life into a room. Fresh air not only improves the physical atmosphere but also freshens perspectives. Studies show that a well-ventilated room boosts cognitive function and overall well-being source.

Play with Lighting

Lighting can transform a room from a dull, lifeless box into a haven of warmth and coziness. During the day, I make sure natural light flows in unobstructed; sheer curtains are perfect for maintaining privacy while still allowing the sun’s rays to work their magic. In the evening, opting for soft, warm-toned bulbs instead of harsh white lights makes the space welcoming and calm.

Add Elements of Nature

Incorporating plants or fresh flowers into the home environment can significantly enhance air quality and add a natural element that reminds us of the world outside our walls. Bringing nature indoors ties us back to the rhythms of life, and caring for these plants adds an extra layer of mindfulness to daily routines.

3. Simplify and Arrange for Functionality

Now that we've laid the groundwork with decluttering and atmosphere, it’s time to focus on function—simplifying and arranging items logically and conveniently to complement and ease my daily routines.

Rearrange with Purpose

Considering how spaces are utilized daily can lead to remarkably liberating changes. By rearranging furniture to facilitate movement and interaction, you create an environment that works with you, not against you. This can be as simple as ensuring the couch faces the windows to take full advantage of natural light or placing a small lamp by a frequently used reading chair.

Tidy in Small Increments

Rather than waiting for the chaos to accumulate, I’ve found that maintaining order in small, regular increments makes for a much more manageable task. This approach, inspired by the "two-minute rule" for productivity, suggests that if a task can be done in two minutes or less, do it immediately. Applying this to home tidiness ensures that order is maintained with minimal effort.

Personalize Your Space

Finally, adding a touch of personality—whether it's a treasured photograph, a sculpture from a favorite artist, or just a quirky thrift store find—makes each space uniquely yours. It’s these personal touches that make a house feel like a home, full of stories and warmth.

Conclusion: A Continual Journey of Resets

Resetting the home is not a one-and-done event but rather a continuous, evolving practice. By focusing on decluttering with intentionality, refreshing the air and light, and arranging spaces for function and personalization, the nurturing environment of a home becomes intertwined with our day-to-day well-being. It’s a journey of discerning choices and thoughtful placements that ultimately sets the stage for living well.

Before we part, let's encapsulate our chat into a few daily essentials—a handful of gentle reminders to carry forth into all seasons of life.

The Daily Essentials

  • Declutter Daily: Spend just a few minutes each day putting things back where they belong to maintain a sense of order.
  • Natural Elements: Consider adding a small plant to your workspace for a touch of life and better air quality.
  • Purposeful Arrangement: Take time to arrange one area of your home, ensuring that it’s both functional and pleasing to the eye.
  • Lighting Mindfulness: Replace one bulb with a more energy-efficient or warmer tone light for improved ambience.
  • Breathe Deeply: Open windows daily, even briefly, to let in fresh air that revitalizes the space and your mind.

These actionable tips are meant to be embraced gently, each one building on the other, creating a home space that’s ready for whatever comes next. With these practices, resetting your home becomes an exercise in creating a life more aligned with your true self, where each room not only serves its purpose but sings with your personal harmony.

Anastasia Ellery
Anastasia Ellery

Mindful Living Curator

Anastasia’s curiosity for what truly makes a good life is contagious. With a background spanning culinary arts, financial wellness, and habit science, she approaches mindful living like a spirited explorer—experimenting, questioning, and sharing what works (and what decidedly doesn’t).

Sources
  1. https://konmari.com/
  2. https://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/open-your-windows-to-better-health

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